Did God Choose Us or Do We Choose Him?

Predestination and election are touchy subjects in the church today. Some believe that God chose an "elect" few to go to heaven. Some believe that we are completely responsible for coming to Christ. Is there a middle ground? If so, how does it work? If you are in the "Calvinist" corner, does God send people to hell? If your in the "Arminian" corner, how can a spiritually dead person come to Christ on his own? Ring in, ask questions, give answers. Explore God's Word, It's crazy fun....